Marrying a Millionaire

Working out VS. Not working out

Which do you like better, the before or after shot? A rhetorical question, I know. It is common knowledge that men are visual creatures and women are emotional creatures, however women still want you to look good.  We men instantaneously make snap  judgments about which women we think are hot and want to shag. Guess what – women do the same thing, even though they don’t talk about it as openly (usually) and harshly as men do. Men who workout and keep themselves in shape will naturally attract more women for a variety of reasons.

Given the obesity statistics of most of the developed nations, it’s clear that most people are flat out ginormous and out of shape. This means that the majority of your competition vying to date the best women will probably be a little flabby. This is good news for you if you’re in this category.

When you get in shape and lose the extra insulation, you will notice a strange phenomenon. You will notice women you don’t know looking at you differently. They will smile at you more frequently and meet your eyes. Bottom line – they will find you more attractive just like you did with the picture above. You become more pleasing to the eyes.

When you’re in shape, it communicates that you care about your appearance and how you present yourself to the world. It also shows that you are capable of managing and taking care of yourself. If you can’t take care of yourself, how could you take care of her?

Another side benefit: when you watch your body transform from working hard and eating right it will dramatically boost your self confidence. Women can smell self confidence from a mile a way, and lack of it can be a deal breaker.

Rise above the obesity herd and get your ass in shape

Action Plan:

1. Create an exercise plan TODAY, not tomorrow, not Monday today. March yourself down to the local gym and sign up. If money is an issue do push ups, sit ups, squats, and pull ups in your garage or house and run sprints on the street.

2. Eat better today. You know what’s good for you and what isn’t. McDonalds…baaaaaad. Salads with olive oil for dressing…gooooood.

-Gary

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Asking out a good friend is not a good idea. It can be extremely awkward for the receiving party and possibly sabotage the existing relationship.

You may be thinking, “you know… we have so much fun together and she would be perfect for me. We have the same friends, I know her parents, and I know that ‘The Notebook’ turns on the water works.”

If you unveil your emotions or “true feelings” to your friend it will most likely result in ruining the friendship and her avoiding you for a while. Hopefully she will forget shortly and your now strained friendship can resume.

If the foundation of the relationship is not based in a sexual way then the emotional unveiling will not work. The vibe of your friendship will have forever changed, even if she assures you after rejecting you that it won’t.

It may sound like I am being negative, but I am only trying to prevent you from damaging a potential life long friendship. From past experience and talking to other women who have gone through this – it’s a bad idea.

What you need to do:

1. Don’t talk about your emotions to anyone on this subject, don’t give it life..keep that crap inside.

2. Go to a website like http://www.plentyoffish.com/ and check out 20 hot single girls to remind you that there are in fact other single women who are looking and available.

3. Be glad you have a great friend and leave it at that

-Gary

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1. Avoid  fighting in public with a woman your dating, save it for a private place

2. Don’t forget to introduce the woman your with as your date, friend, girlfrend to people when you’re out together

3.  If you initiate dinner plans then you should pay and vice versa.

4. Always let the woman order first

5. Always put your napkin in your lap at dinner

6. The bigger, more mature man can walk away from a potential altercation

7. Look people directly in the eyes when you meet or greet and give them a handshake.

8. In meetings, don’t hold conversations at the same time someone else is speaking. Let the other person finish their point before speaking.

9. Don’t talk so loud the world around you can hear your conversation

10. Don’t talk down to others

-Gary

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Nice – you did a decent job breaking the ice and scored a date. Now it’s time to make a great first impression. The time before you go out can be a bit nerve wracking, so here are some ways to calm the nerves and make you feel more confident.

1. Workout about 3-4 hours before you planned to meet. Make sure its a challenging workout. This will level you out and curb anxiety.

2. Pick up a gossip magazine like People and browse through it for about 10 – 15 minutes so you at least have a clue about the stuff women love to read and talk about. You’ll learn who’s cheating on who in hollywood, etc.  This will give you something to connect with almost any woman.

3. Plan so that you are on time. If you’re running late send a text.  It’s not cool to be “casually late” on a first date.

4. Take a relaxing shower, brush and floss your teeth, etc. Make sure you have clean nails and ears. Women notice the little details.

5. Stay positive and remind yourself that you are both going out to have a good time. Remember to make sure you smile when you first meet.

6. Bring a condom. If a woman is willing to have sex with you on the first date… not exactly long term relationship material and an ever BETTER reason to bring a condom. Better to be safe than having to get tested for STDs the next day.

-Gary

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The first date should always be lively, fun, casual, low cost, and offer a quick escape if need be. Avoid dates that require long time investments. If you find things aren’t working out and you’re not digging the woman you’re with, you can easily get out of the date within less than 20 minutes after you’ve had your coffee, ice cream, etc.

Forget the classic “dinner and a movie” date for a first date as it’s boring, expensive, and does not offer an easy out. If you’re single, there is a good chance you will have multiple first dates with different people. This can start to chew into your wallet if your constantly going the dinner or dinner and a movie route. Keep it simple, and stick to one of the four locations below. Meet each other at each location so that if things happen to go south, you don’t have to bear an awkward ride to your cars together.

All of these locations are in public so the woman feels more comfortable. Never invite a woman you have no rapport with to your home for a first date as this may appear rapistesque.

1. Coffee Shop – Ideally the one that isn’t a a big chain and has some local flair. The caffeine will give you both an endorphin rush that you can both enjoy together, and best of all these types of environments have a vibe that encourages interesting conversation.

2. Ice Cream – Similar to the coffee shop in that it’s low investment and yields delicious treats.  Great way to enjoy the weather while learning about someone new. You can test with ice cream to see if she’s ready to kiss you , “Want some? its wicked good!” If she does eat off your spoon, she also feels comfortable enough to kiss you.

3. Park – Lowest investment of all, all you have to pay for is your gas to get there. Its very natural to hold hands while walking in a park, so don’t hesitate to grab her hand to start physical contact early on.

4. Mall - Great for craptacular weather and allows you to walk and look at different things to keep the conversation rolling.

This should go without saying, but be a gentleman and pay for both your treat and hers. We’re keeping the first dates cheap, you can afford $10.

-Gary

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