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Foreigner Dating

Posted by P'Ple On October - 28 - 2009

I hope you like this and lucky with your love ;)

Dating Koreans

 

Dating a Foreigner

 

Elenas Models Tips for Marrying a Foreigner - Online Dating

Elenas Models Tips for Marrying a Foreigner - Online Dating

 

Dating Foreign Women

Flirting With Humor

Posted by Gary On October - 22 - 2009

Flirting With Humor

When you’re planning to flirt with women, it makes it a heck of a lot easier if you’re in a state where you feel good and like you’re having a fun time. Go workout or do something to relieve stress if need be.  Don’t even bother if you’re strung out or not currently happy.

Confidence and plain ole being in a good mood is a big piece when it comes to effective flirting.

Humor is the bedrock of flirting. Without injected humor your flirting attempts may come out awkward.  It’s good to learn a few funny one liners that you can adapt to many situations.

Examples

  • You: “If I pick this up, can I trust you not to stare my ass?” Then bend over and over and really stick your ass out.
  • Girl: “Want to play me in this?” You: “You couldn’t handle it”
  • You: “I normally charge people to sit this close to me”

When a conversation is going great that is the time to end it. You always want to leave a woman on a high note and end it on your terms.  You should always be the one to end the conversations.

When you end a conversation on high note you leave her wanting more.  It will also make her think about you more when you’re not together.  This is also a good way to end a conversation and get a number before heading off.

-Gary

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Get real date, Right now!!!

Posted by P'Ple On October - 15 - 2009

Have a lot of many many guide line about dating online, but it just like theory not real situation.Someone can not use some guide rule for his/her date, why???. I think some guide rule for dating ,it not come from real situation or real life.So he/she is unsuccessful on his/her date.Today I have clip VDO “How to get real date” present to you. After I reviewed, I think it is really dating rule and I hope to it useful and make success for your date.

 

Self-Confidence Attracts Women

Posted by Gary On October - 14 - 2009

self confidence 161x300 Self Confidence Attracts Women

Self-Confidence attracts women. Self-confidence is always an attractive quality to the opposite sex (or same sex if you swing that way). Women feel more comfortable around self-assured men. On an instinctual level, they want a mate who is strong and will be able to defend and take care of her. You project this ability with having high self-confidence.

Self-Confidence is a trait that can be learned and cultivated. Most people are not naturally self-confident. They had to learn how to do so through life experience. They have basically learned how to excise negative thoughts and become the best person they were meant to be.

No one wants to be around someone who is negative and self-defeating.  How does a guy that isn’t great looking end up with a 10?  Self-Confidence and personality strength.  A man who exudes self-confidence rubs off on those around him and is someone people want to be around.

It’s key to be open and relaxed with women.  You have to be in control of your world.   This means that you are relaxed, not fidgeting, using strong body language and having fun.

This is one of those things where you can “fake it ‘til you make it.” Even if you don’t have much self-confidence, pretend that you do and act like you do. Your actions will eventually meld into your personality and just become what you are.

Simple example: If you’re feeling depressed, stand up tall, slap the goofiest grin on your face you can possibly muster, pull your shoulders back, stick your chest out and then try to still feel depressed.  It will be a lot harder because your body is no longer in a depressed state.

-Gary

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Talking To New Women

Posted by Gary On October - 8 - 2009

TalkingToNewWomen 200x300 Talking To New Women

If you’re not immediately comfortable talking with new people or talking to new women you’ve just met, you may find it hard to make lasting connections with them. You also might find it harder to make friends in general.

A mistake people make is that they tend to put a lot pressure on themselves when trying to make a good impression on someone they don’t know.  This makes it more difficult to have a memorable conversation and connect with someone due to all your nerves being jacked up.

When you first start talking to new women, you don’t have to ensure that you say something witty or clever right from the start.  Stop trying so hard.  Let yourself just be ordinary, and talk about fairly normal stuff (at least at the beginning).

You will not win woo women and make friends by trying to show off.  This is an important tip when speaking with women. They see through most of the bullshit, the smart ones do at least.

When you worry about every word coming out properly when you’re approaching or talking to a woman, you’re just making it harder on yourself.  Women can smell a nervous guy a mile away.  Relax and enjoy the presence of someone new.

Simple formula to make another person feel like you had a great conversation:

Listen 80%

Talk 20%

Everyone’s favorite subject is themselves.

For a successful conversation, it’s more important to be a good listener than it is to be an AMAZING speaker.

If you want to quickly make a good connection with someone, shortly after meeting move the conversation to a more personal level and skip the bullshit small talk.  Ask questions that most people would only ask friends they have known for a while, as long as they are not too intrusive.  Pay close attention to how she reacts. If she reacts positively, keep leading the conversation down that same path.  Ask questions that drill deeper into the same subject or ask a question about something they just said.  Just keep them talking and actually listen. Smile and nod occasionally so she knows you’re still there if she’s on a roll.

That’s the fundamental concept for talking to a new woman and making a good connection in the first conversation. Also, avoid fidgeting and nervous movements. If you start to feel an awkward silence make your escape and ask for a number, or if your realized she’s not your type just say “gotta run, it was nice meeting you.”

-Gary

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Online Dating Profile Tips

Posted by Gary On October - 3 - 2009

online dating profile tips

It can be intimidating trying to come up with the best way to present yourself to the world of online dating, as you naturally want to present yourself in the best light.  It can be even more challenging for those who don’t enjoy writing – even more so writing about a profile about themselves. If you follow these simple profile tips, you will wind up with a decent online dating profile.

  1. You want to write enough to garner some interest, but not so much that you’ve explained everything about yourself in couple paragraphs.  The goal is to illicit that first contact and arrange a first date.  If you give it all away, there will be no point in meeting you.
  2. Don’t make your requirements too narrow.  If you seem overly picky it will be a turn off.  Describe characteristics about a person you would like as preferences not requirements.  Keep your “must haves” and “want to haves” separate.
  3. Tell the truth.  You may want to lie, but every good relationship starts with integrity.  This is no exception. Any lies here could end up biting you in the ass in the future and ruin a potential relationship.
  4. Be interesting and avoid a boring cookie cutter profile at all costs. Humor and creativity are the two components that make a profile memorable. Don’t use self deprecating humor – that communicates lack of confidence.  Avoid cheesy clichés unless you’re doing it to be funny.

-Gary

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